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I kissed a girl, and i liked it! Is this normal? Im a teen. Im not lesbian, in fact I love guys. Theres been multiple times where Ive made out with girls though, its a nice change. Well anyway I was searching the web and I came across some videos of girl on girl..and I couldnt stop watching? Is this normal? Could I be closet gay!!! Ah help! | hahaha xD
I think It's normal. cause I'm the same way (16 yrs old).
And believe me, I am FAR from being a lesbian. I just find these sort of things entertaining xD
don't worry about it.
I LOVE GUYS. <333333333333 | Do you like these 2 paragraphs in my book? I will take any critcims, compliments, or anything you have to say about it. This is chick lit mainly for teen girls, similar to the "clique" series. P.S im only 14 and this is my first attempt at a book.
“I don’t know Giselle, I know I’m whining but I really am not good at anything…but…”
“But?” Gisele interjected.
“I kind of have a good voice, and I’m a decent dancer.”
“Lets see! That’s ah-mazing Chloe, I’ve always wanted a good voice! Mine cracks like there’s no tomorrow. Sing! Please! Now that I think of it I have never heard you sing. Your really modest so I’m guessing your voice is amazing?”
“Ahh, not quite.” Chloe glanced sideways at her blue ihome, propped on her “homework” desk.
“Come on! Im your sister, please sing to me?” Giselle begged, clasping her hands together and opening her sea foam blue eyes wide.
“Fine.” Chloe agreed rather grumpily. She slid off her duvet and padded across the feathery rug to her ihome. It sat there. Staring at her, mocking her. They were friends. Chloe and the ipod, that is. Chloe listened it to on her two mile jogs every other day. She bought hundreds of dollars worth of instrumentals and sang along to it at night. She brought it on vacations. She studied with it, she cried to it, she laughed to it, and like every girl out there, she danced to Britney, watching her reflection in the mirrors adjacent to it. Chloe sighed. It still mocked her though, because it screamed at her. It screamed “I know you want to be in me.“ Because that was ALL Chloe secretly wanted. Her name and a hit song in Americas ipod, blasting on Kiss 108 daily, and her music videos playing across the nation from gay clubs to the waiting room of dentist’s offices. She wanted those nerdy girls with their knotted, frizzy hair and pink braces to gaze up in the waiting room at the fuzzy TV screen and think wistfully, “I want to be her.” But really they only leaned over to their mother and asked to go to her concert next weekend. Their mothers would brush them away saying the braces were enough money. Unfortunately, Chloe was the nerdy girl at this point. The only thing she HADN’T done with it was perform. | Wow. That was pretty good. It's nicely written, I'll grant you that. But most books that I've read always start with dialogue. Unless you want to have your story like that ;)
Anways, I really liked it. Keep on writing, darlin'. | Push him a little bit or not? (please read)? IF YOU REALLY DON'T FEEL LIKE READING, SKIP TO LAST SHORT PARAGRAPH & BOTTOM QUESTION :)
I have a friend who doesn't fit ANY gay stereotypes & people immediately assume he's a homophobe. He's actually really accepting of the LGBT community though.
When I first met him his opinion was that it was okay for female to be queer, but not guys. Just a bit later his opinion was that it was even okay for guys as long as it wasn't in public or flaunted. Then it was that they could flaunt it all they wanted, as long as they didn't hit on him knowing he was straight.
One day he asked me to explain the different in pansexual & bisexual, I did & he said "Well I'm straight, but if I wasn't, I'm sure I'd be pansexual. I think I can really love anybody. Sex though..sex I only like with girls. I'm just straight."
On Tumblr a couple days later I got an anon message (which means it could be anyone, but..) that asked "How/when did you realize you were pansexual? I've been thinking for a couple of months that I was bi..I didn't know what pan was..now I think I might be that..I don't even know though! How did you realize it & come to terms with it?"
Tonight we were watching a movie that had some scenes with topless guys..My mother said "This is a chick flick, I'm sure K. doesn't want to see topless guys." We were also discussing Katy Perry's music videos..he said something close to "Yeah, I really don't want to see topless men, but the movie is good..(voice dropped) I have to admit though, in her video Firework, I was actually interested to see the guys kiss, for a second I thought one was cute."
I teased his for a second & he said that that'd never happened to him, blah blah. I said "Well, it's only natural. You're human, you can be attracted to anyone & don't let society tell you otherwise."
I don't remember how we got back close to the subject later, but we did & he said something about "every now & then" finding guys attractive. I can't remember the actual sentence, just the words "every now & then" ..so I said "Wait, I thought it was just that once?" & his response was "Uh..ah.. word vomit there.."
So.. I knew he was supportive of the community..& I don't THINK he's gay..but he might be bi or, hell, he might even be gay. I'm starting to think he's queer or curious & afraid to come out or explore it more.
He's been raised in a tiny, redneck, bible thumping town as a Christian who's always had to be the man of the house.. I don't want him to be afraid to explore or come out because of that, but I don't want to drag him out before he's ready (permitting he is queer)
Should I try to talk to him about it or bring it up more? Would that be too pushy? | | i think he's bi and just afraid of coming out.. but sooner or later he'll admit it to you if you bring it up more... i guess itll not be too pushy... just wait and be patient, he is your friend right? u dont have to worry.. he just needs time to think, maybe he's confused and doesnt know what he really is yet... :) uhm.. can u pls answer mine? :'( | She SO saw it!!!!! ? okay so i was watching a you-tube thing...and at one point the two girls do something really sexi (it was a music video)
and well i smiled and thought to my self that's hot...
I also mouthed it...and I know my sis saw it ..what do i do if she asks me if I'm gay ...i am not ready ..ah i'm freeking out hear..what do i do ..i don't want to lie eather... | Aww, I can't help but think it's kind of cute that you couldn't help but smile and mouth "That's hot". :]
First things first, do not freak out. You can play it off by not making it a big deal. I don't think she'll ask you if you're gay just because you thought the dance moves were hot. LOTS of straight girls think girls in music videos are hot as well, trust me. If she was to ask you, it might be a good chance to tell her, but if you're not ready to you could just laugh it off and say, "Why would you ask me that?" Make it seem like you're totally blind sighted that she would even think you might be gay. Chances are she will not even bring it up though.
| Doesn't the video "Firework" by Katy Perry make you happy? It shows we are all special, whether we are gay, have cancer, are fat, are magicians... We all have beauty and have "specialness" :D
Make them go AH AH AH BABY YOURE A FIREWORK COME ON LET YOUR COLORS BURST. | | get me excited | Did you people see david archuleta's new music video? I thought it was AH-MAZING
when people think hes gay hes actually not.
THIS VID GIVES YOU PROOF!!
youtube.com/user/xelmolovex
its on my profile check it out and tell me what you think about it! :)
♥ | i love the video
its soooooooo cute
and im so jealous of that blonde girl
i completely love that song!!!!!!!!!!!!
its like one of my favs right now :)
davids not gay
hes nice and sweet and polite and caring
hes so hot and is so talented!
i <3 Archie!!!!!!!!! | Would blowing stuff up change anything? or in the words of annoying conservatives(TERRORISM)? Now I won't try to like some super smart intellectual philosopher who knows it all, I'm 16 and stupid in fact I'm not even sure if I put this in the right category, I don't know, I didn't pay attention in government class, to be honest I flipped a coin between law and ethics and government as you can see it landed tails(law and ethics) I don't even know what that means. I have dark fantasies of becoming a total take no **** badass and come to school with a black eye and back talk teachers, get into fights and start a terrorist organization(Fight Club) and wear masks and blow **** up(V for Vendetta) and cause the people in the white house to lose their minds. Now don't worry I'm not that crazy, well not yet, I'm getting there(just guyding). Anywho I was thinking would it work if I blew up a healthcare company like HUMANA or took over a tv station and broadcast a video showing off the terrible stuff that happens like Michael Moore documentaries or kill a corrupt politician, would it do anything? Again I'm not actually planning any of this, hahahaha I just realized everyone's gonna say "oh no the media is corrupting our youth, they'll be anarchy in the streets, AH!" You have all these people saying "Oh gay marriage will ruin the fabric of society, abortion's a sin, free healthcare is for communists or whatever, we should all follow the bible, lets fight this country". I don't know, maybe I've listen to too much Anti-Flag and Rage Against the Machine, watched and read Fight Club and V For Vendetta too many times, Michael Moore brainwashed me or just plain hate society and life. If someone just decided lets blow this up this corporate building or vandalize that Kalvin Klein billboard or broadcast porn on CNN and FOX news. Would it bring more harm than good, again and once more, I'm not gonna do any of this, besides I'm too lazy and stupid, in fact underneath all the pissed off rebel without a cause stuff there's a logical part of my brain with common sense and a conscience. It's like a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde or like Fight Club: a Narrator and Tyler Durden thing, one minute I filled with all the hate in the world, wanna bash someones head in, blow up a bridge and then to a good, believing in the greater good, peace, just trying to see the light, etc.
Anyway I just wanna ask if this kind of radical protest would work? hehehehehe I over did it. | | all i can say is over the last 8 years, how many rag heads have strapped on a bomb, and walked to a crowded area, and boom kill themselves and 30 other people and hurt 20 more.... after all that stupid violence, have their actions changed anything for the better... well i hope they really get their 72 virgins cause nothing else changed except some innocent people died | What do you call someone who thinks transsexual is unrelated to transgender but opposes most HBS beliefs? I believe that transsexualism is completely unrelated to transgender and the history of both people never intertwined until the gay community got involved.
I am angry at GLAAD and the rest of organized homosexuality that I get sexually propositioned by men to do things only a she-male does when such things are not only degrading, debasing, and dehumanizing; but physically impossible due to a brain to genital disjunction.
It's bad enough when people presume negative stereotypes about a group of people that you belong to, but it is unjust to have to live with the consequences of stereotypes of another group of people that got conflated with yours.
I am angry at GLAAD for conflating transsexual people with transgender more than I am with the porn industry for doing this. This makes gays hypocrites for opposing sexual orientation- gender identity conflation while spreading transgender-transsexual conflation.
I do oppose HBS on several beliefs:
1) Stating that HBS is an intersex condition is pointless and a wasteful exercise in futility. I can see no improvement in the lives of transsexuals even if a completely inverted brain was something that could be medically scanned for and was proven beyond any scientific doubt.
All this does is create needless antagonizing and alienation. It is hypocritical to be angry at transgender-transsexual conflation yet advocate or even support transsexual-intersex conflation.
2) Hate and intolerance of others. I support even the wildest of gender bending; including people wearing dresses and beards simultaneously; just as long as they do not conflate it or partially conflate it with transsexualism. I loved the video of the Hunky Christ contest put on by The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. I hope they have the contest next to Vatican City or in Mecca during Ramadan one day rather than staying confined to San Francisco. The Mecca show can have drag queen belly dancers escorted by a contingency of turban wearing Dykes on Camels. Free speech and expression is not hate. Lack of it is.
I do have LGB and even T acquaintances in the real world. None however are connected to organized LGBT activity, live in queer neighborhoods, or are obnoxious solipsists.
Hate and intolerance does not help send the message that transsexualism is completely separate from transgender but actually reinforces conflation when HBS people show hate and intolerance towards others. With respect you have to give some to get some in this world. When the HBS movement will not give any, they send the message that transsexualism is nothing more than bigoted and hateful transgenders. I do accept their gender identities yet see it as different as psychosexually different as gay psychosexuality is to heterosexual psychosexuality for people of the same gender. It seems to be a labeling conflict.
3) Their indifference towards other people’s suffering is not only appalling but foolish. Nothing disgusted me more than the attitude that pre-op transsexuals should go to men’s prison and get what they deserve. The foolishness of this belief is the extraordinarily high risk of rape that such a policy will put on THEM even though they are post-op and not in jail. Nothing increases the chance of a woman being raped than government indifference and covert support of rape.
4) A woman born transsexual is no longer a transsexual once she gets surgery. This comes across as more delusional and solipsist than someone who has lots of male on male sexual activity with their male organ and thinks they are a woman or vice versa. WBT comes across as equally delusional and solipsist as a person who thinks they are both a man and a lesbian at the same time. Those XY chromosomes and inverted penis makes a woman born transsexual a cissexual. Ah Ha! LMAO!!!
5) The lack of men born transsexual, HBS indentifying men, and especially no apparent working relationship with them is quite dubious. I have never heard of anyone who identifies with those two labels above never mind work with HBS women or Women born Transsexual.
6) The elitist attitude that they are of a different sexual nature simply because they had access to surgical funding and were in good enough health for a credible surgeon to operate on them. How do socio-economic class differences make someone’s brain work different sexually? | Hi PolarGirl. I agree with most of what you wrote except #4. Correct me if I misinterpreted you.
A person is born transsexual. That is they are born with a brain-body mismatch. After transition that, for the most part, no longer exists. Hence they don't fit the definition of "transsexual" anymore. However, they do have a transsexual medical history.
Am I making sense?
The thing I really dislike is being called elitist when I point out the definition for the word "transsexual". To me that word has a specific meaning and describes a specific type of person and life experience. Namely I believe the person should have THE DESIRE to fully transition. If they don't have that long standing desire they are TG, not transsexual. I am sure I'll get a thumbs down for this, but let me say: I respect everyone. A TG woman is a woman, but she's not a transsexual woman. So folks don't be bashing me saying I'm putting you down. I am not. I respect everyones identity, but terminology is important. My life experience, my want and needs are different than TG folks. And when things are different in this world we use different labels, or in this case sub-classifications. Neither is better, they're equal, just different. edit: Think of it this way: We're all the same color, just a different shade.
edit: I think people are being thrown off by the complexity of the question.
Spooky: The one part that's exclusionary is the bit about the gay community at the beginning. I do disagree with her there. I don't think the gay community is at fault. I blame the media and religion for conflating us all as one homogenous group, when in fact our community is made of of many different groups.
Kyle: HBS stand for Harry Benjamin Syndrome. A small group are transsexual women developed their own standards of care and seek to disassociate themselves from the word "transsexual". The have been rabidly exclusionary and cliquish. They have an online forum that I once was a member of for a couple weeks, but it was stifling. Back to their SOC. As I said they wrote them up by themselves. They had no input from real medical personnel at all. Long story short: Stay clear of these folks.
I think the answer to the problem is education, education and more education. The general public must be taught that the stereotypes they hold about transsexual people are wrong. As more and more people openly transition AND people know us on a personal level..... attitudes will start to change.
WBT: I'm assuming it's woman born transsexual. | A series of unhappy and obscure dreams? Recently, my dreams have become noticeably more vivd, when nothing much has been happening in my life. One thing I've found, is that whenever I'm having a break from college, it becomes the main focus of my dreams. Another thing I've noticed is that there's always quite a sad, tired, or depressing atmosphere to them. Here's one I had last night. It is not particularly eventful but it felt very vivid:
I am somewhere. There are slopes that go around a kind of rectangular room, and it is like an assault course. I think I was showing off by crawling around randomly, but I found myself stuck in between the ceiling of one slope and the floor of another. Suddenly there are loads of people running on the 'assault course' and I get up and run too. I go into the next room, climb up a BIG ladder and it is a giant swimming pool. The ceiling goes up really high. There is a boy in front of me climbing up a ladder, who I know from college. I seem to be happy about this, because I can see up his shorts and perv on him. He has a moderately hairy bottom. There is a drainpipe that goes over the pool, he monkey swings across, and I monkey swing a bit I think (or don't at all) and instead dive into the pool. As I fall in the water, I'm dragged down to the bottom and panic (I felt dejavu here). Visually, everywhere at the bottom of the pool turns into a video game and I'm in third person, and can 'pause' the game (like in games, it says 'pause' on the screen while i'm in third person). When I pause I can breathe underwater. I 'unpause' the game and can still breathe, and am somehow able to swim to the top.
At the top I am out of the pool, and I think I saw Sue Sylvester from Glee, and my best friend. Sue says "ah so you made it out then" casually. I go over to this other boy who is sitting on a ledge next to the wall that I climbed over to get to this room. I jump in the water again and panic because I can't breathe and the 'pause' thing doesn't work, but somehow I can breathe again and get out. I warn the boy not to jump in. I grind this boy and act sexually for some reason (in real life I do not find him attractive). He tells me he is having trouble with his animal pets. I appear in his house, which is oak-coloured with wooden walls, like a log cabin, and is quite sunny. He has a gay dog who he wants to keep because the boy is gay too, but he doesn't want the cat. I lock the cat out I think, but the cat can still get in and I don't do anything about it. Then, I am at my house, and can hear lady gaga music. I walk out of my house and feel I lovely afternoon summer breeze, though it makes me nervous. I walk into the o2 arena which happens to be in a car park near my house, though it looks different in my dream, and I feel nervous. There are lots of people and I am rushing somewhere. I see friends. Then I appear in college AGAIN and am walking. My brothers and sisters are there. I wonder what they are doing there, mum said meet at twenty past three at their school, then says quarter to three. Inside college, I still feel the breeze, people are leaving, and I feel strange. My art teacher likes an evaluation I wrote, though in real life I'm sure he didn't like it. I leave him to meet my brothers and sisters outside again. A boy that in real life I had a sort of connection with that I now don't really talk to and feel awkward around is in front of me. I decide to 'probe myself' in a way by walking really fast and overtaking him down the corridor. Then, I go on an undersea adventure. An indescribable underwater cave, and with some people we run away from something. Suddenly I am in another adventure. I acknowledge that it is fictitious (in my dream I am living a film sort of) but still feel panicked. I run onto the great wall of china, while there is a war going on, it blows up sending me flying into the air. I land a hill of pebbles, where there are some other people. There is water near the pebbles. However, beyond the highest point of the hill of pebbles (the hill of pebbles is a tiny hill) there is nothing. I think there are mountains, but it just felt like 'nothing' and that I was at 'the end'. Actually thinking about it, I think this bit was the prelude to the swimming pool scenario. I can't remember exactly.
Anyway, I hope you didn't find this dream too boring or obscure lol, but I'd really like to know what it means???? I felt quite depressed in it, which is usual, and it felt very epic. Also, is EVERY tiny thing in dreams symbolically significant?
Hope you can inform me, I find Jung/ Freud etc etc really interesting! :) | | if true see a counselor | Please help and read my essay?!? Have you ever took the time to just think? Think about life and they way we live it? The things people do and whats left unsaid. I always have thought about the way life works, wondering all these profound questions. Why some people do what they do, why we say things we don't mean, why we take life for granted.
Recently over summer, i saw something that really mad me think about the way we live and the actions we take. Fifteen year old, Larry King, was murdered for being gay. I know that i don't personally relate to his sexuality choices, but seeing this story really made me think about how a person could do this to a young boy, a boy only in eighth grade. I don't understand what's going through peoples minds when they have the thought to murder or hurt someone in this way. Everyday, thousands of people die for incidents that could easily be prevented. I have met some amazing people in my life who are gay, and i see nothing wrong with it what so ever. But that's not the point, the point is that the world we live in is so stereotypical and criticizes every little thing, and its only getting worse. It just so happened that the day after i watched this, there was another thing on the news about another 15 year old boy, who was set on fire and set to burn to death by three other boys he attended school with. Luckily, he ran to a near by pool and set off the flames. Weather he survived the fire or not, its the matter that these guys actually did this and now the burned boy has to live with the emotional memories and scars that were set on the table because of what he went through. Why did this happen? Because he didn't pay the three guys back $40 for a video game. I cant even think of words for something like this to express how many things were running through my mind after seeing this, and the murder with Larry. It's and emotion that words can not even begin to say. The thought of someone doing this to one another, and these are just two stories out of millions.
Everybody has a voice, small or large, and every body has the right to be heard. But what if it's true when they say actions speak louder than words. What if even those who speak up with their voice get over ruled by the actions others take?
ah i dont know what else to add to this to make it an actual essay? is it good so far?
i have to write about a turning point in my life, and i figured this would be a good topic
what else should i write?? i really wanna involve something with saying "we've all been told actions speak louder than words" but i dont know how to incorperate it | | idk |
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